7 Habits of
Highly Effective Teenagers
Habit 4
4. Think win-win
Teens can learn to
foster the belief that is possible to create an atmosphere of win-win in every relationship this habit encourage the idea that
in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a mutually
beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishment of
others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is a
belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and thought all at once. I won’t
step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to
succeed as well. Win-Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of
success to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a
matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. Their’s more than enough food
for everyone. It’s an all you can eat buffet. Win-win always creates more.
Perhaps the most surprising benefits of thinking Win-Win is good feelings it
brings on. The true test to whether you are thinking Win-Win or one of the
alternitivesis how you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your
judgment and feel you with negative feelings.
Win-Win will fill your heart with Happy and Serene
thoughts. It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think win-Win
or no deal.
Choose
the Right?
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